Sunday, April 30, 2017

Blessings in Adventures

It's been an awesome weekend with each day full of adventure! Friday I was blessed to go hiking with two of my children and three of my grandchildren out to Stoney Hill. The first time we have actually gone out on a real trail together with the two little ones hiking along and not in carriers. 



They did so well and had no problem what so ever. They even found a couple of Nana's caches along the way. Since the day they were born I have dreamed of the day when I could take them out hiking and caching and it was just wonderful to have that dream fulfilled. Although we have hiked together before this seemed like a true hike out in the forest with trails, views, caches and a snack a long the way. 



They are great little hikers and I can't wait til we can all go again and hopefully my newest grandson will be able to join us. 


Saturday my pals had planned an adventure for us all and off to Gabriola we went. It was raining on the way and when we arrived at the selected park the wind coming off the water was quite cold but we braved onward and found a little spot out of the wind and thankfully the rain stopped. 



We had a wonderful lunch cooked on their "Jetboil" stove and just enjoyed being together while soaking in the beautiful ocean views. 


After lunch we were blessed to be able to walk along the trails in the wind, without the rain. I love Gabriola and every time I go it is so fulfilling and lifts my spirits. It brings out my inner child and I can't help but just laugh and have fun when I am there. I'm not sure if it is because I am on a different island away from home or just being near the ocean in the wind that has me dancing inside. 



Sunday I joined one of the local hiking groups and hiked up Eagle Heights in Shawnigan Lake. It was 8 km and only 3.5 hours but it was very steep, both going up and coming down. It definitely gave me and my knees quite the workout. 


It was a lovely forested trail with waterfalls, moss covered rocks and slopes and lovely arbutus trees. 


There were lots of different tiny flowers along the way.  


The view at lunch wasn't too bad either but the trail coming down was very steep, narrow and loose rocks from dirt bikes going up and down. Thankfully I managed to get to the bottom without slipping or falling. 


It's always great to get outdoors and to have three days of adventures, each very unique from the other, made for the most fantastic of weekends. Life is so short and time goes by so fast that one just has to make the most of each day and each moment.


Tomorrow it is back to work which will be filled with blessings of it's own but I know what will get me through each day will be the respite I received this weekend. Wonderful trails, time by the ocean, awesome family and friends, great food and Mother Nature, it just totally restores my body and soul. 

Monday, April 24, 2017

Self Care in Solitude

A few years ago I stopped hiking on my own due to the wildlife that kept getting reported. I still remember the day I went out on my own and turned around because I was scared to be in the bush alone even though it wasn’t out in the “wild”. I’ve spent the last two years always hiking with friends which I absolutely love. It brings companionship on the trail and someone to share nature’s gifts with.

The view of Samsun Narrows from Stoney Hill
These past two weeks have found me wanting to be outdoors and no one available to be with. Twice now I have gone off on my own for very short hikes, no more than 30 minutes from where my car is parked. Each time I have sat for an hour or two and enjoyed the beautiful views of the ocean, once from Stoney Hill and once from Genoa Bay.  

The view from Genoa Bay  - the other side of Stoney Hill
It has been such a blessing. It has given me some much needed solitude time out in nature. I had no idea how much I missed it and yet I truly did miss having my friends with me. However, on the Genoa Bay hike two of my friends were down below paddling their kayaks. It was comforting knowing they were there and yet I was still alone in the silence of nature. 

May pals below paddling into the marina at Genoa Bay
I guess life gets busy and I try and fit both family and friends into whatever free time I have and it’s wonderful to have people to be with but I realized how important it is to have time to reflect on life and just sit and soak in the beauty around me. 

Awesome pathway through the little oak trees - looking out to Cowichan Bay
I had fun finding little treasures along the way and just sitting in the sunshine warmed me and calmed me from some of life’s frustrations.


Tiny Shooting Stars along the pathway
I obviously need to do this once or twice a month. It really only takes a couple of hours and can be so “refueling” spiritually. I don’t have to hike or drive far. Just fifteen minutes up the road and twenty minutes down the trail. I believe it is important to practice self care so that we can be healthy for others that we love. Life is full of stresses so making sure to take time out for oneself is important. It’s not selfish but very necessary.

Beautiful trillium

Today not having time to drive anywhere I spent half an hour on my patio just sitting with the evening sun on my face listening to the cute little birds chirp around me and bees buzzing happily in the flowers. 

My backyard companion
Spring has finally arrived and it was so peaceful and nourishing for my soul. Later this evening I decided to take a short drive and watch the sunset. It’s always so soothing to watch it slowly sink below the mountain. While I waited I was entertained by the sounds of birds chirping, the quail quickly dashing and the baby bunnies hopping down the trail. It was nature showing me that spring really is the most wonderful season. 

The ending of a wonderful day
Today was a great day and I feel rested, restored and renewed all on top of feeling so very blessed to live on this wonderful Vancouver Island. Life is good especially when you take the time to get outdoors and appreciate the world around you. 




Sunday, April 2, 2017

Extraordinary Day!

Today I joined a hiking group to and headed down to East Sooke Park to hike from Anderson Cove out to the beach along Copperhead Mine and back through Anderson Trail. It was a beautiful sunny day and just the perfect day to be out doors enjoying the forest, trees, creeks and then of course the beautiful views of the ocean. 



Today's hike was 12.5 km in length and took us about five hours to complete. The sun was shining, the sound of the wind blowing through the trees brought a peaceful feeling to me. I quietly hiked looking in all that surrounded me.  The many greens of the forest always looks so lush to me and the sound of the little creeks bring me joy. 



I had hiked along the coastal part of the trail before but one of the hikers had just recently moved here from Ontario. Although she has traveled all over the world, it was wonderful to hear and see her excitement upon reaching the water. Her excitement was contagious and gave us all a new appreciation for sights that were somewhat familiar to us. 



Our world is so full of so many beautiful places. I would love to travel and explore the world hiking and seeing all the wonders of this planet. However, although I am unable to travel everywhere I would like to go, I am so thankful that my island home is full of beautiful sights to see and places to have adventures in.  Sometimes the best places our right out our own back doors.



Whether I choose to drive north, south or west on the island there are mountains to explore, beaches to enjoy and many many lakes and rivers, each so very unique in their own way. There is always something new to see as nature is always changing and evolving. 



Life is not always easy and there always seems to be lots of horrid things happening in our world. So many people struggle with illnesses, both physical and mental. When it hits close to home it brings many worries to friends and families. Today I spent much of the time thinking of a friend who was just diagnosed with cancer. As I stood looking out at the ocean, feeling the wind off the water I prayed for all those who are struggling that they find strength, healing and peace. We never know what will come our way in life and if we think too much or worry too much about the future we will miss out on so much of today. 



I know the day will come when I am no longer able to climb the mountains or hike the trails. Each time I go out I spend time absorbing the sights and feelings that surround me. I breathe in deeply to connect with nature and all that it gives to us and I say "Thank you". Life is so short and we never know what tomorrow will bring. It is so important to live each day fully.  



Quite often in life we get used to the beauty that surrounds us and we forget how blessed we are. Things become ordinary instead of extraordinary. I continue to remind myself what a gift life is and not to take any moment of it for granted. I want to make memories that will carry me through long after I can't get out on the trails. I want to be able to look back and say WOW..wasn't that an extraordinary day! And today certainly was!




Wednesday, March 15, 2017

Circle of Love

Love comes in so many forms in this world. I love potato chips, I love hiking and exploring, I love my friends and I love my family. Now I have to admit that the love I have for my family totally out weighs the love I have for anything else in life. 
My family continues to grow and grow. Every year we seem to welcome new souls into our family circle. Children marry, friends are adopted into our family and even some pets join the circle, and then grandchildren our born and our circle of love just keeps expanding and expanding.
It's only the beginning of March and I have already welcomed two new babies into my life and into our family circle. Both boys born four weeks apart. They are a blessing to all of us and each a sweet little soul with their own looks and characteristics. One has an older brother and one an older sister so they will both be the "little" brothers in their families. 




Life is full of wonders and mysteries and so much love. Love is what brings warmth to our hearts and joy to our lives. There can never be enough love and yet there is always enough. The more there is to love the larger our hearts expand with that love. 
When I gaze into the eyes of my new born grandchildren I can't help but feel the love and then wonder what gifts they will be to this world. I am thankful they are healthy and have loving parents to give them all the necessities of life and surround them in that unexplainable parental love. That unconditional love that we all have for our children. 



When I play with my older grandchildren who are two and three I can't help but love them more and more as they each develop their own little personalities. They are so open and honest with their feelings and they share their love openly with lots of hugs cuddles and giggles. 



My oldest grandson has been staying with me these past three days while his Mom and Dad were in hospital welcoming in his new little brother. As we packed up his bag this morning I told him he was going home to sleep with Daddy tonight. Now I know inside he was ecstatic to be going home because he has asked every night for his parents, but what did my sweet little three year old say to me "Oh I'm sorry Nana, I will miss you. Sadie will miss you too because we love you so much"  Now if that doesn't bring a tear to one old Nana's eyes nothing ever will. He gave me a big hug.



So now we shall head out and have one of Nana's adventure days together and then I shall return him to his family my heart filled with love that hopefully will last me through these next few days til I get some more Nana cuddles from one of my littles that so bless my life.
Love its what we all need, its what our world needs and it comes in so many forms that there has to be enough for all people. We are all so very different and live such different lives but we all need to open our hearts and open our circles and let our circle of love just grow and grow for all people everywhere. 
Ah my heart is filled to overflowing with love from all the blessings in my life...i am one very happy, love filled Nana.

Sunday, February 19, 2017

Back in Balance

This morning I left home not knowing where I was really going to go but ended up heading towards a short little 5 km trail at Jack Point that I have been wanting to hike for years. Up until a month ago though, I didn't know where the trail head was so was unable to come here and explore.



So although it was raining I decided to give it a try and wow...it was a beautiful little trail and the perfect place to find some alone time and just soak in the quiet of nature. 


Life doesn't always go as we would like, there are curves and twists in it all the time, which I guess is a good thing. As I walked among the arbutus trees filled with twists and curves it reminded me of what life is like. 


They, like the people in our lives are all beautiful and amazing to be with yet there are some trees that look like I feel at times...old and gnarly!



And then others looks so very perfect, like I wish I could be. However nothing is really perfect in this world and we just have to take it as it comes.




We are all so blessed to be surrounded in such beauty and it is a great reminder for me to always be thankful. There is just so much to be thankful for.


And when some days you feel like you are all alone in the world....


a friend just pops by or up and reminds us that we are never alone, there is always someone there when you need them. 


It was a great morning, sitting quietly by the water listening to the waves gurgle around the rocks. As much as I love hiking and caching with my pals, every now and then I need to escape out on my own and just be still with nature.



And as always, after a few hours out in the rain and wind, surrounded in beautiful creation, life is back in balance and my soul is recharged with hope and an inner peace. I am thankful.



Monday, January 30, 2017

Escaping

Sometimes in life one just needs to escape. Not only to escape from the daily life of work and stress in one's life but to escape from the wider world and all of it's continuing horror.  This past weekend I did just that. I spent two days up in Comox having fun and sharing in lots of laughter. Laughter to me is the best medicine when life gets me down and laughter is at its best when you share it with those you love. 


Friday night we took a quick stroll down to the beach to walk the dog. The wind was blowing and the waves were large and foaming on the shoreline. Walking near the ocean in the wind is one of my favourite things to do and it always brings a smile to my face. 


It just feels so good to have the wind on my face and even better if the sun is shining as well. It's a great way to connect with creation and be thankful for the simple things in life. 


Saturday we took off to Nymph Falls and went in the opposite direction of the falls hoping to make it to Comox Lake and the damn approximately 6 kms away. It was a beautiful trail that followed the river for some time before heading off into the woods. It was very quiet in the woods and gave us a wonderful time to chat and catch up. We really didn't see any other people on the trail and at times the quietness of the forest was rather spooky. Looking across the river at the swans against the frozen snow brought a sense of peace and calm.


There was much more snow on the trail than we had anticipated so we had to turn around before reaching our destination. However I do hope to give it another go in the spring when the walking will be much easier and the scenery will be full of different colour.  


Sunday we woke to rain but decided to go forward with our snowshoeing adventure on Mount Washington. By the time we reached our destination just down from the actual ski hill the snow was coming down in huge large wet flakes. It was beautiful. 


We headed out and went off trail through the trees breaking our own trail. It was quiet and magical. 


The snow drifts were clear of any tracks and we felt like we were out in our own little world. Eventually the snow stopped and the sun came out and the whiteness of the snow and the views were just amazing.



 We stopped on the side of the small hill and shared in a lunch before heading back up hill to the vehicle. 


Upon reaching the crest of a small hill we posed for some silhouette pictures against the sun, however I stepped on my own snow shoe and tumbled backwards into my daughter sending us both into the snow with lots of laughter. 



It was a weekend full of fun and laughter and most of that laughter was at myself and to me that is the best kind of laughter. When one feels free and safe enough to just laugh at their own fears or silliness with people they love it restores. It drains away the tension caused by stress and just allows one to have relaxing fun and forget about the rest of the world, if only for a few minutes. 


I am thankful that I am able to escape from the "real" world and enjoy time out in nature. So many folks are unable to. They are dealing, on a daily basis, with the horror of others cruelty because of their race, religion or other factors in their lives. Today as I returned to work and folks shared with me their disgust over what is happening in our world this week, I was able to just sit and listen and be present thanks to my restorative weekend. I find the politics on our world frustrating because it gives me a sense of helplessness. I feel there is nothing I can to do that will make things right with the world. Thankfully, when life gets too full of cruelty and negativity I shall be able to look back at this weekend and remember the laughter and "escape" once again for a few moments of time. If only it was so easy for all.